 Sexual confidence is like job experience. You need to
have it in order to get it.
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- Some of my male friends are very attractive and eligible
yet have trouble finding a mate. The main problem is they lack confidence.
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- Recently, one friend was shot down because he was "too
old." He is 38 (looks 32) six foot 3, fit, handsome and never married!
What is this woman, in her twenties, thinking?
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- Another friend lamented, "Women have all the power!"
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- As I suggested recently in my article "The Biggest
Mistake Men Make" http://www.henrymakow.com/the_biggest_mistake_men_make.html
men must stop worshiping the God of sex and see women instead as a means
to an end, (marriage, family.)
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- Thanks to feminism, young women are spending their critical
fertile years in university either learning to fear men or giving their
bodies to strangers. They are not getting married and having children,
which is what feminism wants. It is as though migratory birds were taught
that going south is politically incorrect.
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- But my sense is that young women have not lost their
instincts, and want what they always have wanted: marriage. A concerted
approach by a confident man will get through to them.
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- But first men must rid themselves of the befuddlement
that comes from believing in the religion of romantic love.
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- ROMANTIC LOVE
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- Romantic love is mostly sexual infatuation. Our neo-pagan
era worships the fertile female, not as wife or mother, but as sex toy.
Society invests enormous power in these eye catching playthings who are
used to control us.
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- Our world-matrix has been created by a pagan Luciferian
sex cult, Cabalistic Freemasonry. (What do you think those obelisks represent?)
They in turn are empowered by the Cabalistic central bankers who seek
to replace God, and institute their world government dictatorship.
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- We are already in 1984. Few ideas gain widespread currency
unless they are financed and backed by the bankers and their media, government,
education monopoly.
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- Their goal is to substitute their bogus religion of romantic
love (with its holy sacrament of sexual intercourse) for real religion
which is worship and obedience of God.
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- Men idealize women because we are looking for ourselves,
the God within, our ideal selves, in them. We think women and sex will
give us our true Selves. This error is partly due to our Luciferian society
telling us women are identical to men. (It stigmatizes gender differences,
i.e. heterosexuality, calling them "sexist.") Thus, Nature is
thrown off balance as men seek themselves in pleasing (and becoming) women
instead of leading them.
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- In reality, women are a means to an end, not Goddesses.
Men are really in love with their true Selves. God, the principle of their
personal development requires Self-transformation and action based on a
higher moral principle.
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- Media-driven romantic love makes us sublimate our love
of God. The Lucifer-worshipers don't want us to fulfill ourselves spiritually
or socially. That would interfere with their domination of planet earth
and their mental enslavement of mankind.
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- SEEK RECEPTIVITY
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- A woman's most important quality is her receptivity to
YOU, basically her willingness to do what you want. A woman shows love
by self-surrender, trust and acquiescence. Naturally you first have to
impress her with your charm, power (competence, responsibility etc.) and
devotion to her well being.
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- People these days spend their whole life in courtship
when they really want marriage. Marriage is not a permanent hook-up with
a hot body. It is a lifelong alliance where two people agree to look after
each other. Love develops over time as this commitment is demonstrated
in everyday life. Monogamy and fidelity are essential to develop the trust
and intimacy we seek.
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- We don't permanently love people because they are "hot".
We love people who are devoted and prove it.
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- My love for my wife took a leap forward when I lost some
money on the stock market and she didn't jump all over me. She knew it
happened but didn't even raise the subject. She showed that I was her first
priority and she was there for better and for worse.
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- I advise younger men to look for women on the basis of
1) receptivity and devotion to YOU and willingness to make YOUR life easier
and better. 2) Sex wears off. In a partner, look for life skills, character
and intelligence. You also want a woman who has abilities and qualities
that you don't have. You want her to be easy to live with.
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- CONCLUSION
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- A man and a woman are designed to be like the front and
back wheels of a wagon. Men, the front wheels, steer. Women, the back
wheels, are essential to make the wagon function. Usually the wagon will
carry a family. Two people become one, and the child is the manifestation
of this union.
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- Men, when you get a shopping cart that is wonky, do you
feel downcast or rejected? No. You put the cart back in the rack and get
one that works. There are hundreds there! And you only need /one.
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- That is how men should look for a mate. It's not what
she wants. It's what you want. You create the material and spiritual foundations
for a life, and you enlist a woman who wants a part in it.
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- If you think you've found the right one, you won't take
"no" for an answer. There's still room for romance. You will
win her heart.
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- Henry Makow Ph.D. is the author of "Cruel Hoax:
Feminism and the New World Order." (www.cruelhoax.ca) His articles
can be found at his web site www.henrymakow.com He enjoys receiving comments,
some of which he posts on his site using first names only. hmakow@gmail.com
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